This is my list

[wakame]

so after plenty of research this is what I am planning on using.

for my 2007 black civic si (moderate swirls)

wash
clay
XMT #3
XMT 360
Wolfgang deep gloss
collinite 845

I need help with what to use on my wife's car, it is a 2010 white Genesis. Her car has little imperfection. Which products should I use on her car?

[BobbyG]

There's no reason why you shouldn't use the same products....

[wakame]

would the xmt #3 be too much for her car? how about for regular maintenance after? what should I use?

[BobbyG]

While I've not used Pinnacle XMT Intermediate Swirl Remover, it sounds like something that works well with an Orange or White foam pad to remove defects without removing much clear coat.

With a coat of sealant then topped with Collinite 845; normal washing, dry, and a quick wipe with Optimum Spray Car Wax is a great way to keep the finish looking superb for quite some time....

[wakame]

that will be great, I got some 360 spray wax and Meg QD and QW.