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Brandon1 · #1 07-24-2007, 08:05 AM

I have been with the girl of my dreams for the past 3 1/2 years. We have always been perfect for each other and have always had tons of fun together. Seemed like everything was going 100% perfect. Now just for the point of making this story sound right, she wanted to be a large animal vet when she graduates.

Well, July 7-14 she went on a cattle drive to Wyoming. Gone for 1 week, we have never been away from each other more than 3days. She comes back acting all wierd, like she does not even want to see me. Well, skip to today and I start asking questions. Seems that she has realized that she may not always stay with me in NC and would someday like to move somewhere else (new idea). Says that she loved Wyoming so much that she wants to go work there next summer. Seems that to prevent further heartache years down the road when we would be even more involved with each other, we should break up now.

Now, we still love each other 100% and wanted to be together always. I guess that her life and mine (one that is not willing to move from NC) wont work together in the long run. So we decide that it may be best for us to go our seperate ways. Now we arent enemy's or anything like that. In fact it was one of the hardest breakups (and one of the only) that I have ever done. Probably only b/c we still love each other very much. I was really upset and the fact that I have seen her for 3years and now I just wont is really heartbreaking.

I dont know why I posted this, I just had to vent. All my friends were asleep and I have nobody to talk to. I am just not looking forward to the weeks ahead b/c I wil be missing her so much. I love her and hope to still be in contact with her for a while. I am not mad at her for wanting to move elsewhere, just livin in sucksville right now.

Grimm · #2 07-24-2007, 08:10 AM

Sorry to hear that. Have faith, it will all work out in the end, whether it's with her or someone else.

Brandon1 · #3 07-24-2007, 08:45 AM

I hope, she was my girlfriend and my best friend. I feel like I have lost 2 people at once.

I hope maybe I can spend time with her as a friend in the future, or maybe she will realize this is a big mistake and be willing to figure something else out.

MotorCity Honda · #4 07-24-2007, 09:09 AM

Brandon there's nothing we can say to make this easier.. BUT you must trust me when I say it DOES get easier... my ex and I were together for 8 years, we were friends since the age of 18... when we splitt it was harder than nails. Now 5 years later I am happier than I have ever been in my life.

Good luck to you bud, keep you chin up and show her what you are made of.. by this I mean if this is something she really needs to do for her life to be happy AND if you really do love her, well then as hard as it is for you, you have to support her.

Hopefully you have a strong network of friends to help you through this.

If you ever need to chat just PM me.. I've been where you are at..

Bigfoot · #5 07-24-2007, 09:13 AM

It's a tough call and sorry about all that, but to the honest truth, like somebody else said, it will pass. Been there, and it's no fun what so ever. Hope things work out for the best.

Dust2Glory · #6 07-24-2007, 09:29 AM

Bro. if it's true love and it's meant to be it will work out. Tha's what you have to look foward to. At the other end, if it's not meant to be and you think she is/was the best thing.... well that means that God has someone even MORE than what you had before, and that too is something to look foward to.

Brandon1 · #7 07-24-2007, 09:35 AM

Thanks guys, I hope it works out. We have had some problems in the past so maybe I can find someone that does not have any problems. Or maybe we can get back together, I dunno.

MotorCity Honda · #8 07-24-2007, 09:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Brandon1

Thanks guys, I hope it works out. We have had some problems in the past so maybe I can find someone that does not have any problems. Or maybe we can get back together, I dunno.

Hmm, I have realized that even the most perfect relationships are not "problem" free...

Bigfoot · #9 07-24-2007, 09:40 AM

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Originally Posted by MotorCity Honda

Hmm, I have realized that even the most perfect relationships are not "problem" free...

Couldn't agree more!

Bernard · #10 07-24-2007, 09:44 AM

I'm sorry to hear this. I understand how bad it is. My gf also choose her job over me. It's hard, I know. After 4 years it's still hurt inside. Don't give up on her yet, as you did mentioned that both of u still love each other very much. I hope both of u could find a way to make it work. It's hard. But don't give up.

Sometimes no matter how we like to imagine how the world would work. Even under so much pressure. If the world would be just as simple as the word LOVE. Be cool Brandon and hope both of u guys would find a way to be together again.